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Boy Name #4,395 Most Popular Hidden Gem 3 Syllables 7 Letters

A fearless biblical warrior with a name meaning 'gift'

Hebrew Christian Jewish African Christian

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Meaning & Origin

"my father is a gift"
Origin: Hebrew
Language: Hebrew
"father of a gift"
Origin: Hebrew
Language: English

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The Story of Abishai

Abishai is a biblical Hebrew name composed of 'avi' (my father) and 'shai' (gift), meaning 'my father is a gift' or 'the father is a gift.' In the Old Testament, Abishai was the son of Zeruiah and nephew of King David, one of his most loyal and fearless warriors. He was known for his fierce loyalty and military prowess, serving alongside his brother Joab in David's campaigns.

Abishai is a rare name outside deeply religious communities, favored by families in African Christian communities (particularly in West Africa and East Africa), as well as among Messianic Jewish families and conservative Christian families who choose Old Testament names. It has seen modest growth as biblical names have gained broader appeal.

In the Bible, Abishai was one of David's mightiest warriors — he once offered to kill Saul while the king slept, showing his absolute loyalty to David. He later killed the Philistine giant Ishbi-Benob when the aging David was in danger. The name thus carries connotations of fierce devotion and protective strength.

Historical Record

Abishai first appeared in US Social Security records in 1995.

Over 316 babies have been named Abishai in the United States since SSA records began.

Today, Abishai is rising quickly in popularity , currently ranked #4,395 for boy names in the US .

Fun Facts

  • Abishai appears over 25 times in the Old Testament, making him one of the more prominent supporting figures in the David narratives
  • The Hebrew name Avishai is the modern Israeli form of Abishai, still given to boys in Israel today

Abishai in Other Languages

French Abishaï
Hebrew אֲבִישַׁי
Amharic አቢሻይ
Spanish Abishai
Swahili Abishai

Popularity Over Time

#4,395
Current Rank
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Rising Fast Based on SSA data 1880–present

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Biblical warrior, nephew of King David and brother of Joab, one of David's thirty mighty warriors known for his fierce l...

Biblical warrior, nephew of King David and brother of Joab, one of David's thirty mighty warriors known for his fierce loyalty

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Quick Facts

Gender
Boy
Syllables
3
Popularity Rank
#4,395
Total SSA Count
24
Cultural Origins
Hebrew Christian Jewish African Christian
Pronunciation
Hard
Formality
Formal
Cross-Cultural Ease
Low

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Abi Shai

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Frequently Asked Questions About Abishai

What does the name Abishai mean?
"my father is a gift" (from Hebrew). "father of a gift" (from Hebrew). Abishai is a biblical Hebrew name composed of 'avi' (my father) and 'shai' (gift), meaning 'my father is a gift' or 'the father is a gift.' In the Old Testament, Abishai was the son of Zeruiah and nephew of King David, one of his most loyal and fearless warriors. He was known for his fierce loyalty and military prowess, serving alongside his brother Joab in David's campaigns.
What is the origin of the name Abishai?
Abishai has Hebrew, Christian, Jewish, and African Christian origins. In Hebrew, it means "my father is a gift". In Hebrew, it means "father of a gift".
Is Abishai a boy or girl name?
Abishai is used as both a boy and girl name. As a boy name, it is ranked #4395. As a girl name, it is ranked #26407. Abishai is more commonly used as a boy name.
How popular is the name Abishai?
Abishai is currently ranked #4395 in popularity for boy names in the United States.
What are common nicknames for Abishai?
Common nicknames for Abishai include Abi and Shai.
What are good middle names for Abishai?
Popular middle name pairings include Abishai James, Abishai Emmanuel, Abishai David, Abishai Michael, Abishai Samuel, Abishai Joseph, and Abishai Elias.
What are good sibling names for Abishai?
Names that pair well with Abishai as siblings include Joab, Asahel, Elihu, Jedidiah, Miriam, Tamar, and Naomi.
How many syllables does Abishai have?
Abishai has 3 syllables, making it distinctive and rhythmic.
Is Abishai a common or rare name?
Abishai is an uncommon name, ranked #4395 in the US. Its rarity gives it a distinctive, memorable quality.
What boy names are similar to Abishai?
Abishai pairs well with Ilay, Kush, Jometh, Refael in style and sound.
Are there other spellings for Abishai?
Related spellings include Abisai.

About the Name Abishai

Abishai is a boy name with Hebrew, Christian, Jewish, and African Christian origins . The name means "my father is a gift" in Hebrew .

Is Abishai a boy or girl name? Abishai is used as both a boy and girl name. As a boy name, it ranks #4,395 in popularity. As a girl name, it ranks #26,407. Abishai is more commonly used as a boy name.

Abishai is currently ranked #4,395 in popularity for boy names in the United States.

The name Abishai has 3 syllables, making it distinctive and memorable.

Common nicknames for Abishai include Abi and Shai. These shorter forms provide casual alternatives while keeping the elegance of the full name.

Alternative spellings of Abishai include Abisai . Each spelling variation gives the name a slightly different character while preserving its sound and meaning.

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